Harry Bone • 2025-11-07
Stop apologising for slowing down. It's strategic, not defeat
I often see students running around in circles, trying to nail what they're working on. They start at full speed, make a mistake, try again at full speed, make the same mistake, and repeat. Five attempts. Ten attempts. The frustration builds, but they keep pushing through at performance tempo, hoping this time it'll click.
Then, eventually and perhaps reluctantly, they have to slow it down.
Even when they don't say it out loud, I can feel it. That sense of admitting defeat. As if needing to adjust the tempo means they're not good enough yet. As if slowing down is what you do when you've failed at going fast.
Let me flip that script entirely: controlling your practice tempo isn't a sign of weakness. It's a sign of mastery.
Professional drummers don't play everything at full speed all the time. They deliberately choose different tempos for different purposes. When you adjust your tempo to match what you're trying to achieve in that moment, you're not "slowing down because you're struggling." You're using one of the most powerful practice tools available.
Let's talk about how to actually use it.
This might sound obvious, but think about how most people practice:
They play something at performance tempo. It goes mostly fine with a few mistakes. So they play it again at performance tempo. And again. And again. Hoping the mistakes just... disappear.
Here's the problem: if you can already play something, repeating it doesn't make you better at it. It just reinforces what you already know—including the mistakes.
The goal of practice isn't repetition. It's understanding and correction.
So when something goes wrong, the question isn't "can I get it right if I try again?" The question is "do I actually understand what went wrong, and how to fix it?"
That's where tempo comes in.
Here's a practical framework I use with my Bristol students:
One mistake = move on. If you make a mistake on something you generally know, and it was clearly just a slip—you rushed a transition, your hand placement was slightly off, whatever—move on. Don't dwell on it. Don't immediately try again. Your brain already knows what to do; it just misfired in that moment. That's normal.
Same mistake twice = adjust tempo to investigate. If the same thing trips you up twice, that's information. That's your brain telling you "I don't actually understand this section as well as I think I do." Now it's time to slow down—not because you're failing, but because you're being smart about diagnosing the problem.
This is mental control. You're making a deliberate choice about what to practice and how.
Most students think about tempo like this:
But professional musicians think about it like this:
When you slow something down deliberately, you're not admitting defeat. You're choosing the right tool for the job.
Slow tempo (50-70% of performance speed):
Medium tempo (70-90% of performance speed):
Performance tempo (100%):
Each tempo serves a different purpose. Choosing the right one for your current goal is a skill.
You're playing through a song you know well. You miss a cymbal hit because your hand was slightly too far from the crash. You know the part. It was just a physical slip.
Response: Move on. Don't replay it. Your brain already knows what to do—repeating it won't help, and it breaks your flow.
You're playing the same fill, and twice in a row you get lost in the sticking pattern halfway through. You thought you knew it, but clearly something's not locked in.
Response: Drop the tempo to 60-70% and play just that fill in isolation. What's actually happening? Is the sticking unclear? Are the hands getting ahead of each other? Are you rushing a specific transition?
Once you can play it smoothly at the slower tempo, gradually bring it back up. Now you're not guessing—you understand it.
You've been working on a new pattern at slower tempos, and it feels solid. Time to test whether it holds up at performance speed.
Response: Bump it to full tempo. If it works, great—you've confirmed it's locked in. If it falls apart, that's information. Drop back to medium tempo and build up more gradually.
If you're adjusting tempo during practice, you're not being weak. You're being smart.
The students who improve fastest aren't the ones who white-knuckle through everything at full speed. They're the ones who recognise when to slow down, when to speed up, and when to just move on.
That's mental control. That's mastery.
If you hear your child practicing and they're playing the same section at different speeds, that's not confusion—that's intelligent practice.
If they play something slowly, then a bit faster, then slowly again, they're not struggling. They're using tempo as a diagnostic tool.
The sign of good practice isn't "everything at full speed all the time." It's "deliberate choices about what tempo serves the current goal."
Speed is a tool, not a goal.
You don't need to prove you can play something fast. You need to understand it, control it, and self-correct when it goes wrong. Sometimes that means playing slowly. Sometimes that means testing your fluency at full speed. Sometimes that means moving on because you already know it.
The students who develop real mastery are the ones who learn to control the tempo to match their purpose—not the ones who always default to full speed and hope for the best.
So next time you're practicing and you instinctively reach to slow something down, don't apologise. You're not struggling. You're being intentional.
And that's exactly what good drummers do.
Looking for drum lessons in Bristol that focus on smart practice strategies, not just repetition? Get in touch. I work with students who want to understand their playing, not just repeat it.
